Anonymous: There is this guy that I been going out with I really do know what to do I never had a bf before.we are what you can say bwwm for some reason he never take me out to dinner the only thing we do is take a walk in the park Everytime in after that back in his car trying to do sexual things that I don't like for some reason I think he is using me or he is cheating on me becuz he always say the reason he do it is becuz we don't have sex in he use to txt me every morning now he txt me n kik only


(CONT) It’s just seriously unfair for someone to be attracted to me(white guy) but won’t do anything about it.. what’s the problem here? His attention on me just caused me to like him too… guess who’s getting hurt in the end..

You haven’t had a boyfriend before but that doesn’t stop you from recognizing when someone is blatantly disrespecting you. The fact that you are doing sexual things you don’t want is a really, really big deal to me. More so than the whole interracial aspect of this. You need to end it with this guy. He’s using you and then hiding you out because you are black. 

End it. Cut ties. Completely. That’s what you need to do.

I don’t want us to be those parents who never act romantic in front of their children. I want our kids to learn how to really love somebody because we lead by example. So kiss me in the kitchen while I’m pouring cereal, cuddle with me on the couch during family movie night, and hold my hand while we grocery shop.

Let’s show them what true love looks like, so when they find it for themselves they’ll never let it go.

(Source: imaginativeobserver, via innoncentsins)